Archive for January, 2010

Has God called you to something or is there a specific task, idea or vision He’s given you?  Are you hitting any resistance, doubt, or frustration? If He has indeed called you, then be encouraged. You now have the biggest backer in the industry.  Listen to how Paul handled this…

Reading through the Corinthians this morning and didn’t get past verse 1 of the first chapter.

Paul, called to be an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God…

I’m sure there are all sort of scholarly explanations for why Paul wrote this, but as I began to look at the introductions of Paul’s other letters, I was struck with a thought. Listen to how he opens other letters:

Paul, a servant of Christ Jesus, called to be an apostle and set apart for the gospel of God -Romans

Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God – 2 Corinthians

Paul, an apostle–sent not from men nor by man, but by Jesus Christ and God the Father, who raised him from the dead – Galatians

Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God – Ephesians

Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God – Colossians

Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the command of God our Savior and of Christ Jesus our hope – 1 Timothy

Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, according to the promise of life that is in Christ Jesus – 2 Timothy

After Paul became an apostle of Jesus, his life did not get easier or more luxurious. In fact, from an outsider’s perspective, you could say it probably got worse. But Paul knew that his calling was from God and that is served a much greater purpose than himself. Paul was given the mission of taking the Gospel to the ends of the Earth. A pretty amazing calling. As Paul did this, he ran into opposition, riots, torture, prison, beatings, snakes, liars, dirty politicians, and a host of other pleasantries. I am sure there were times when Paul was thinking, why the heck am I doing this? Why should I keep going? Where am I going to find the strength to go on?

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Jon is a good friend to Backstage Leadership and I’d like to help him out. Jon has a book coming out soon and we want it to get on the best seller list on Amazon. Right now, if you pre-order it from Amazon, you’ll be entered into a contest to win Apple’s latest gadget, the iPad.

Here is a  brief interview I did with Jon, whose hilarious and thought provoking blog is  Stuff Christians Like. Jon shares some great insights on the fact that his blog wasn’t an over night success. He actually spent lots of time (years) writing before the current blog. And it paid off. I also love Jon’s heart to use his platform for good. Through the readership of his blog he built 2 schools in Vietnam. Let’s help a brother out. Go get an advance copy of the book.

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If I played professional basketball, I’d rather be known as the guy that can slam dunk versus the guy that can dribble well. Dunking is awesome, dribbling is basic. But, dunking is hard to do if you spend all your time thinking about dribbling.

Here’s a quote by Robert McGee

For talent without craft is like fuel without an engine. It burns wildly but accomplishes nothing.

If you have a natural talent for something, whether speaking, creating, designing, writing, or starting, you need to work on the craft of that skill.  Mastering the craft plus your talent will lead to greater impact.  Mastering the craft means mastering the basics, the foundation.  Once you master the craft you can enter into your talent world and roam free without having to worry.  For the writer it means not worrying “Do I put a comma there or there? Is that a run-on sentence?” By mastering the craft of writing, more time and energy can be put into the creative side, producing much greater results. Its not as fun or sexy, but you must do it. This is why pro basketball players work on dribbling.  By mastering dribbling, they set themselves up for a sweet dunk.

What are the basics you need to work on so you can slam dunk?

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Whatever your vision, idea, ministry, business or purpose, you must pursue it with everything that you have.

Because every vision:

  • is a gift from God
  • is given to you as a steward
  • could have eternity  at stake for someone else.

Don’t take your vision lightly. Push. Keep pushing. Keep working. Keep praying.

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Living in the here and now is natural. We wake up, go to work, get stuff done that we’re supposed to do today, come home, eat dinner, maybe watch some TV, go to bed and get up and start all over again. We worry about today, because there’s a lot to worry about just with today.

But, what if we made an effort every day to do something that would matter 10 years from now? It doesn’t have to be huge, but something that matters. For example, watching a semi-rerun of the Office last night, will not matter in 10 years, but praying with my wife will. Working out for 30 minutes can have a huge affect in 1o years. (skipping the workout will too!)

One of my favorite authors and thought leaders is Malcolm Gladwell. I reread The Tipping Point the other day and it got me thinking about this idea. He explains that the dramatic drop off in crime in New York in the 90’s had more to do with the Broken Window’s theory than anything else. Bascially, the Broken Window’s theory says that when small crimes like graffiti, breaking windows, littering, and panhandling are ingnored, it creates an enviroment where worse crimes are allowed. When the police started cracking down on the petty crimes, the hardcore crimes dropped as well.

Part of Gladwell’s point is that small changes can have huge impact in the long run.  Stopping graffiti can lower murder rates. Fixing broken windows can lower drug sales. Small changes have huge impact. So, what if we started doing small things now that in 10 years would have huge impact? Like praying more with our spouse or kids, working out, eating more healthy, reading a book a month, cutting off the TV, volunteering a few more hours, or getting to really know our neighbors.

What is something you can do today that will matter in 10 years?

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I’ve noticed that a common theme among bloggers is to have a short statement saying something like this:

The thoughts of this blog are my own and do not necessarily reflect the views of _________ church or _________ organization or _________ business. Don’t blame them if I say something stupid or offensive or yada yada yada…

Well, that may be the case technically, but that doesn’t make a difference practically.  If you are writing something and I know you work at a specific church, even if you tell me not to connect what you said with that church, I’m still going to do it.

Try this example:

Say you go to a local restaurant and while in the parking lot, you notice what looks like an employee of the restaurant walking at you with a huge milk shake. As you are about to pass him on your way into said restaurant, he turns and dumps the shake all over you. You are mad and sticky, and offended he would waste such a good shake. You question him saying, “What the heck? I can’t believe you did that.” He runs off and you go in looking for manager of said restaurant to complain. You tell him what happened and explain to him and everyone else in said restaurant that you will never, ever, eat there again.

But the manager looks at  you with a puzzled expression on his face and says, “I’m not sure why you are so upset. That employee wasn’t on the clock.”

“But he still works here and I’m out of here!”

That’s a ridiculous story, but if you have one of those conditional statements on your blog, it begs a few questions.

  1. Why would you not want to have what you say be a reflection of your church, organization or business?
  2. Does your organization not trust your judgment enough? Better yet, do you not trust your judgment enough?

Here’s something to keep in mind whether you are blogging, talking or even hiring someone: You are always casting vision. As a leader, pastor, salesman, and even parent, all of your words, actions and writings cast vision for both you personally and your organization. There are no passes when it comes to something you blog about. People will always make the connection either consciously or subconsciously. Instead of having a get out jail free sign, why not just be careful about what you say.

And if you are a manager, owner or pastor, don’t hire someone if you don’t trust them to write a blog post that will fit within your parameters of your organization’s vision.

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BackstageTM

Backstage Leadership is a distance learning program where you get to ask great leaders any question you want. Each month you participate in a private session with a particular leader and the content is driven specifically by you. Plus there’s no travel expenses or time away.

Here are this semesters speakers:

Mark Batterson- Pastor NCC, author, In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day and Wild Goose Chase

Catherine Rohr- Entrepreneur and founder of Prison Entrepreneurship Program.

Dan Cathy- President and COO of Chick-fil-A

Mike Foster-Founder, Ethur and author Deadly Viper Character Assassins

Ken Blanchard- Business leader, author-One Minute Manager & other books selling more than 18 million copies.

Here’s an example I use frequently.  If you were at Catalyst two years ago than you remember Dave Ramsey knocking it out of the park with his talk on building trust in his organization.  The talk was awesome.  The principles were sound.  The problem is this…I don’t have 300 employees and 8 direct reports.  I have a handful of volunteers and half of those are family!  I’m not on step 50 Dave, I’m on step 5.  I’m trying to lay the foundation so that when I have 300 employees there will be trust.  Help me get there!  This is where Backstage Leadership comes in.  Now, you can ask the questions you want answered.

This is more than a conference.  This is a journey that you’ll experience with other hungry leaders that want so desperately to grow and be used to do great things.  If you are ready to go to the next level, then visit www.backstageleadership.org and apply today.

Sign up here. Deadline is January 18th. Spots limited.

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